Dr. John Gottman , psychologist and researcher, wasn't the first one to warn against criticism. Criticism just hasn't been seen as healthy for a relationship for a long time. There were countless others before him who have preached acceptance and peace in relationships. Buddha, Solomon...
Marriage is just hard sometimes, isn't it? Wouldn't you like some secrets from the Masters of Marriage on how to hedge your bets on your marriage not only lasting, but lasting Happily Ever After ? Well, now - I have just the thing for today....
Remember what Maya Angelou said? "When someone shows you how they feel, believe them the first time." But what if you're the one who did the injury? What if you're the person who hurt your partner in marriage, your close friend, a colleague or worse...
Maya Angelou once said, "When someone shows you who they are, Believe them -the first time." My daughter can do an excellent imitation of Maya Angelou stating this encouragement. She always makes me either smile or groan when she quotes Ms. Angelou. It really depends...
[caption id="attachment_1467" align="alignright" width="200"] You Gotta Want A Change[/caption] Have you heard the joke about the light bulb? It goes like this: Question: "How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb?" Answer: "One. but the light bulb has to want to change!"...