Stonewalling is a classic technique used often in negotiations. It's usually fairly effective, too! You can Stonewall your opponent into believing you're going to raise the ante in a lawsuit or court battle. However, when Stonewalling is used in a marriage, a couple can easily...
Have you ever heard yourself saying, "I feel like I'm talking to a wall?" or "I might as well be talking to myself!" Has anyone been saying these statements to you lately? If so, you might have Stonewalling as part of the Destructive Dance to...
If you are a couple who is wound tightly into a ball of negativity - winding tighter and tighter - until you feel you're going to strangle to death, you must listen to these words: Be Kind - Unwind I can almost predict what you're...
If you're a couple where Contempt is a regular part of communication, you are feeling pretty miserable. Your relationship is stuck in negativity and loneliness. Your marriage is most likely on the way to a divorce or a living death. You may remain legally married....
[caption id="attachment_444" align="alignleft" width="300"] Contempt - Corrosive[/caption] Hey, there. We're continuing on in figuring out how couples can let their relationships deteriorate and slip into some Destructive Dances of relating to each other. We started at the Marriage-Relationship Saga . We're going to keep walking...