Couples often get stuck in destructive habits with each other. Criticism is one of these habits. Criticism often starts a spiral downward for the couple. One partner criticizes . The other Partner defends . One partner ramps up the criticism to contempt . The other...
Criticism is one of the 4 Horsemen couples need to watch out for in their marriage. I began writing about Dr. John Gottman's 4 Horsemen of miserable marriages in my previous blog, The Marriage-Relationship Saga . According to Gottman's research, Criticism will take the "happy"...
Dr. John Gottman informed me about 10 years ago, there were horses in my marriage bed. He had been doing research for years in his couples' lab about happily married couples versus those couples who were miserable or on the verge of divorce. Dr. Gottman's...